There are
more and more reports of abuse and neglect of the Disabled in Group Homes being
uncovered. Some of the abuses are so extreme and sickening and went on for long
periods of time. There has to be better background checks to rule out people
with past drug abuse and animal cruelty charges, which in this case was
implicated. People or Organizations that run these Group Homes also have to be
held accountable if they hire questionable people that have obvious criminal
pasts, but hire them anyway. We have to protect our innocent disabled
population who are so vulnerable and defenseless.
The purpose of this blog is to make everyone understand how hard it is to be a parent of a severely disabled child with autism and make it known how much you have to fight for their rights. It is a never ending saga.
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Showing posts with label abuse. Show all posts
Showing posts with label abuse. Show all posts
Tuesday, August 6, 2019
Friday, May 3, 2019
ABUSE AND NEGLECT
Many developmentally disabled kids can't talk and tell you
what is happening to them. Abuse can be
very hard to detect. Responsible parties
such as staff and assistants downplay bruises as self-inflicted and
investigations often go nowhere with results as “unsubstantiated”.
It is very easy to cover up these cases because the victim
can not speak nor communicate what happened to them. If they can communicate, often they are not
believed due to some extent of mental impairment or distortion of reality.
Cameras should be placed in schools and work programs to
monitor any aggression toward disabled victims.
Group Homes do not allow cameras as an invasion of privacy,
but if there is cause for concern or suspicion, it should be allowed.
Training should be enforced to encourage any staff working
with the disabled population to relieve themselves from the situation if they
feel they are too stressed to handle what is happening at the moment.
The excuse for this not happening is that there is often a
shortage of staff for this population of disabled clients. The workers are often told to make the best
of the situation and often it will take time to get relief.
The schools and facilities should have an alternate plan in
place if the worker, Teacher, or Assistant can not handle the stressful
situation.
From DHS NJ:
New!
The Stephen Komninos’ Law
The Stephen Komninos’ Law was enacted in 2017 and
strengthens protections for participants of any New Jersey Department of Human
Services (DHS) funded, licensed or regulated program for adults with
developmental disabilities, including State developmental centers and community
programs. The law recognizes the important role of guardians and family members
in the lives of adults with developmental disabilities and establishes greater
communication links between providers and guardians. Effective May 1, 2018,
every person who is employed by or volunteering in any DHS-funded, licensed or
regulated program serving adults with developmental disabilities is subject to
the requirements of this law.
Tuesday, June 7, 2011
Placement Horrors for the Developmentally Disabled
Just when I thought I heard everything, I read this horrific news article:
http://www.nytimes.com/2011/06/06/nyregion/boys-death-highlights-crisis-in-homes-for-disabled.html?_r=2&pagewanted=all
I also have experienced similar nightmares with my own son who suffers from severe Autism and Crisis Behaviors, but, I was able to rescue my son from these "respite" places before it was too late.
This poor helpless population who suffer from the mental torture of Autism are put into placements where they are brutalized at the hands of ignorant, careless caretakers and former criminals. These poor victims can not even talk to express their plight.
I have witnessed this type of abuse and neglect of my own son in an out-of-state Institution and had to go through hell to pull him out after 3 horrific months of his deterioration.
This is a very extreme and complicated group of disabled people who can not control their emotions. People and Professionals do not understand Severe Autism or why they are this way. From what I have perceived of my own son with this extreme type of Autism is that they are "scared", "afraid to take one step". Their lives revolve around "perfection and order". If anything disrupts this "order", they "lose it".
They can not cope. Drugs often make them much worse.
You have to imagine what they feel. It is very complicated. All their senses are off. The way they hear, see, smell, taste and feel are distorted. They don't feel pain the way others do either. And, as they grow, they try very hard to figure out how to cope. But, almost every time, one bad habit broken turns into another bad habit...it doesn't go away.
So, how can anyone want to hurt someone suffering with the worst imaginable pain, the pain of "Severe Autism"?
Reading that so much money is put into these Institutions by the Billions and they wind up hiring anyone willing to take the job without background checks doesn't seem real. And, to stifle anyone witnessing atrocious abuse is beyond morality and ethics. This is happening in America, not a third world country.
Are we evolving backwards in time? That is what it seems. Our country is deteriorating. We are allowing the most helpless and most vulnerable population of our country to be exposed to abuse and neglect and forced to keep it quiet. The only thing we value is money and not human life. This is not the way it was meant to be.
http://www.nytimes.com/2011/06/06/nyregion/boys-death-highlights-crisis-in-homes-for-disabled.html?_r=2&pagewanted=all
I also have experienced similar nightmares with my own son who suffers from severe Autism and Crisis Behaviors, but, I was able to rescue my son from these "respite" places before it was too late.
This poor helpless population who suffer from the mental torture of Autism are put into placements where they are brutalized at the hands of ignorant, careless caretakers and former criminals. These poor victims can not even talk to express their plight.
I have witnessed this type of abuse and neglect of my own son in an out-of-state Institution and had to go through hell to pull him out after 3 horrific months of his deterioration.
This is a very extreme and complicated group of disabled people who can not control their emotions. People and Professionals do not understand Severe Autism or why they are this way. From what I have perceived of my own son with this extreme type of Autism is that they are "scared", "afraid to take one step". Their lives revolve around "perfection and order". If anything disrupts this "order", they "lose it".
They can not cope. Drugs often make them much worse.
You have to imagine what they feel. It is very complicated. All their senses are off. The way they hear, see, smell, taste and feel are distorted. They don't feel pain the way others do either. And, as they grow, they try very hard to figure out how to cope. But, almost every time, one bad habit broken turns into another bad habit...it doesn't go away.
So, how can anyone want to hurt someone suffering with the worst imaginable pain, the pain of "Severe Autism"?
Reading that so much money is put into these Institutions by the Billions and they wind up hiring anyone willing to take the job without background checks doesn't seem real. And, to stifle anyone witnessing atrocious abuse is beyond morality and ethics. This is happening in America, not a third world country.
Are we evolving backwards in time? That is what it seems. Our country is deteriorating. We are allowing the most helpless and most vulnerable population of our country to be exposed to abuse and neglect and forced to keep it quiet. The only thing we value is money and not human life. This is not the way it was meant to be.
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